Category Archives: personal

life after divorce | complexities

it just won’t stop hurting. i don’t think it ever can. and i’ve learned not to expect it to. this morning we shared breakfast, as a family. cracker barrel is our saturday tradition. we go for the pancakes and the tiny individual bottles of syrup that the kids can handle on their own if they...

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help uncle marty tell our story

images above taken by jonathan canlas in san francisco about a year and a half ago. we were sitting in our therapists office. i was crying. a conclusion had finally been reached. the D word (we’re still not able to say divorce in front of the kids). nothing felt real. the sense of failure and...

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carry on

many of you have guessed by now -and maybe you’ll find that you’re right. but to a lot of you, this might come as a shock – which doesn’t mean you’ve been wrong, necessarily. so maybe we can all agree that right and wrong in this context, in this post, in this announcement and decision,...

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